12w1d. Told DS over the weekend. It was horribly anticlimactic and taught me a lesson. Less is more. I tried to make it special. I put a baggie of baby things (mostly DS's old stuff, which I've saved) and a newborn diaper (forgotten how SMALL -- practically a maxi pad!) together and we set-up the video camera and told him we wanted to tell him something and we thought it'd be fun if it were a puzzle. He took all the stuff out and was totally blank. We said, "You're a kindergartner, you're a gymnast, you're a son, etc. etc. now you're going to be something else too!" Blankness. Finally, we just said it outright. And he said, "Again?" "Um, no, it's not like this happens all the time and dude, you weren't aware when it was you... so..." Later, he said he had a clue (but not before that moment) but that he just didn't want to say it. Moments later, he was chanting, "I'm going to be a big brother! I'm going to be a big brother!" So he just needed some time for the news to percolate. He's also excited to find out whether it's going to be a boy or girl (he is rooting for boy). Told MiL too, she said, "I've known since Christmas!" She just knew, she said. I asked if it was because I was a super porker/super flatulent.
About the Advil -- I've had a couple headaches since my BFP status that have been awful. Usually, they are tension headaches and I can feel the source clustering on one of my shoulders. Anyway, nothing helps -- Tylenol does diddly squat. In the past, Advil would help. A massage probably would though... but that's a pricey solution and requires a lot of finagling of the schedule. So it's currently been 24 hours of headache with no relief. Boo (yes, complaining, but not ungrateful).
Also still experiencing nightly wooziness... hopefully, it'll go away in about a week. I'm counting 13 weeks as making the benchmark, not 12...
Hope everyone has a great week! I'm ready to be retired or just really wealthy. : )